You need to love you! That's what you must do - according to some people.
No, I'm not talking about Oprah or Dr. Phil. And no, I'm not talking about Eastern Mysticism. Although, they do vigorously promote such a message.
There is a self-esteem gospel being preached from the pulpits. Yes, you heard that right - the pulpits. The proponents of the self-esteem gospel take passages like Mark 12:31 and twist it to mean some sort of "self-esteem" message.
How?
Well, let's cruise on over to Mark 12:31 and see what it says:
And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
The self-esteem gospel reasons that because the text says we must love others as we love ourselves, we must first love ourselves in order to obey the commandment to love others. Yes, these proponents of the self-esteem gospel believe Jesus is saying that you need to love yourself. Why? So that you may effectively love others.
So what's the problem? What's the big deal? What's wrong with a "Jesus was telling you to love yourself" message? Interestingly, the problem with that teaching is the fact that Jesus was NOT telling us to love ourselves. We already love ourselves!
2 Timothy 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves...
Philippians 2:21 For all seek their own, not the things which are Jesus Christ's.
Consider this: We all want what is best for us. We would much rather have some fresh food rather than moldy food. We would much rather have joy than intense suffering.
Another point to consider is that when we are in the center of God's will, we will be so satisfied in Him that we will not need to boost our "self-love" or "self-esteem." We will be content and too occupied with HIM and HIS agenda to worry about "self-esteem."
In wrapping this post up, I believe it would be well to listen to the following two minute Paul Washer clip:
If you cannot see the player on this post, go directly to this link for the audio clip: http://howcanibesilent.podbean.com/2009/11/07/what-paul-washer-says-about-loving-yourself/
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The above audio clip is an excerpt from “Cameron Buettel Interviews Paul Washer” which can be found at this link in its entirety: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLxmyjzzVCw

